Hey everybody!!! Thanks for the comments and your thoughts on PORN. I don't think I worded the questions right. I've been taking some heat about how condescending I sound when asking the questions... LOL... sorry guys and gals.
The truth is... I'm not an angel... but I'm trying to earn those wings. **winks** I'm trying to respect that the act of making love is SACRED, eternal, so close to Godliness.
I think PORN appeals to the most base desires of human nature. Everything we put in our bodies and in our minds will manifest itself EVENTUALLY.
What I hate about porn... ahhh...
"...when you have nothing to be ashamed of, when you know who you are and what you stand for, you stand in wisdom. Insight. Strength and Protection. You stand in peace." ~Oprah Winfrey
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I am no angel myself and have dealt with or should I say struggled with the world of porn. When done in secret it Can and Will take you to places you can't easily escape. It does manifest itself eventually and it's usually in the relationship with the one you love the most, I can say that porn was a big factor in destroying my marriage because we were so polluted with what we'd been allowing in our bed was no longer sacred. I wanted what I saw and I went after it with avengence, lets just say I almost got my get into heaven card revoked.
As far as the questions you asked in the first part: Porn does have an effect on your relationship especially if you're trying to earn your *Wings* (Now if you've decided to be a swinging couple then...ya know)
It conflicted with my morals then but when you feed the immoral man and starve the moral man Immoral becomes stronger bigger and he beats the hell outta the moral man.
It's effects on my life and my spirit were very negative It pulled me so far away from God I didn't think I'd ever make my way back...God is good though.
I read your blog regularly I think it's cool and can really relate to how you feel about your husband God gave me another chance at that and I'll be married soon.
@ queen joya..what wonderful honesty in your testimony and I admire your frankness
If I wasn't conflicted about too many outsiders knowing about my blog per se`, I'd direct this particular post and the previous one to my girlfriend whose close girlfriend's husband is well over the danger border as it relates to pornography. I think porn does exactly what you describe in this post to the individual. It leaves a foothold for the enemy to run rampant in your mind, leaving no room for healthy thoughts about the [one] we are supposed to love. When we need that type of help to focus on new and exciting love-making with the [one] we love, then I think other things are going on. All porn does is take one further away from dealing with truth.
I'd like to add that I think ALL TV sex and pornography is an unhealthy dose of non-reality. So what if it can be done. Do we have to do every thing we see that has been done? It sets a bar so high that one may not be able to achieve, ultimately left unsatisfied. Or alone.
I'm sorry. I guess me and the bf dont take it all that serious. we watch it, and I sit there and gig on the girls (make fun of) and even theguys ("look at his ashy knees" "look her weave is coming loose") and we just have fun with it, and if we get hot, then off goes the tape and we makin our own thing, and whatever was on that tape is gone. Cause he knows, if he EVER tried to treat me like some vide-ho, it would be on and poppin.
he talks to his female friends in the chat rooms, but when I say it's time for dinner, or its time to get offline...it's byebye playplay females and hello real world.
As long as it stays that way, we cool. It has for the past 4 going on 5 years, so..:::shrugs::::
Yea, that's what I hate about porn and mastubation. Its so taboo. Fuck that we human we all do it, why hide it?
I view Porn, but not when I'm actively dating. Unless it is interwoven into the date. I don't normally tell a woman, hey i view porn occassionally. I just let her learn on her own. And if she's into it, maybe we can watch together. I view it for inspiration. ;o)
Yeah, I'm like serial_dater, its definitely less when I'm dating or have someone steady. I don't think I hide the dvd's but I don't have them on visual display either. But I can usually tell early on if a woman I'm dating is into it,if she is thats great. Not that we gonna copy what we see or anthing, LOL. Depending on what type of porn I buy I can be for mutual viewing or something just for me, LOL.
You are only going to appear condescending to someone who's pro porn. lol
When you take a stance on something...anything...it's going to step on someone else's toes if they don't believe exactly the same way you do. That's just how the game goes, yanno?
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